Posts by Mara McLoughlin
Why soft-skills are essential skills in the workplace

More than 90% of all hiring managers admit they favor candidates and employees with strong “soft skills”. That means social skills are essential to master for success in the workplace. Individuals who face obstacles in their work opportunities due to challenges in interpersonal communication and relationship-skills can benefit from social skills coaching designed to transform relationships at work and life in general.

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So what's really in an IRL skills course?

When you enroll your autistic or neurodivergent loved one in our program, you’re getting full access to a multidisciplinary team that includes coaches with a broad range of experiences, cultural backgrounds, gender expressions and sexual orientations. Many of us are also neurodivergent or are parents of neurodivergent youth, so we are familiar with the challenges faced by ND young people and their parents.

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What we’re reading

As we ease deeper into fall and begin to spend more time indoors, many of us find ourselves reading more. Isn’t that one of the best things about fall and winter? Time to curl up with a good book on the sofa, a mug of tea or cocoa, maybe a furry best-friend nearby to keep our laps warm. Here at IRL Social Skills, we are voracious readers, all year-round. Here’s what our coaches are reading.

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What’s in a Skills Jam Workshop?

Our flagship 16-week course is an immersive experience, but everyone can fit a four-month-long commitment into their schedule. We created a monthly workshop to offer social and communication skills coaching that fits into one Sunday each month, via Zoom video calls. Although we can’t fit everything from our courses into a couple of hours, parents and student learners tell us these smaller sessions are great as a refresher or as an introduction to the work.

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Anxiety and Autism: A recipe for distress

Social interactions can provoke anxiety even in the most outgoing, extroverted neurotypical person. For autistic and neurodiverse people, that anxiety can be crushing—causing life-long social struggles and mental health issues. Practicing social skills may ease anxiety before or during social interactions, enhancing meaningful connections. We know! Many of us are also neurodiverse people too!

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First IRL IRL party!

We wouldn’t live up to our name—or our promise—if we didn’t have people come together for actual social interactions. Events where our current students and alumni alike can put their social skills to the test, make new friends. What better opportunity to put those at play than at an outdoor celebration?

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The Science of Making Friends

John Elder Robinson, author of Look Me In The Eye: My Life With Asperger’s Syndrome was 40 years old when he discovered that he was autistic. This revelation transformed the way he saw himself—and the world.

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What exactly is a Social Skill?

Turns out, this can actually be problematic to define. But we know when we or our loved ones have lagging social skills — because we see them, or ourselves, struggle to initiate, cultivate, and maintain relationships with others. And this causes so much pain.

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